I wish I could help but I am in the same place. In fact my 4 year old actually had a massive tantrum in school and spat at her teacher on Tuesday not to mention all the defiance she has been exhibiting lately.
I'm in the trenches with the 5 year old. Worst. Attitude. Yet.
I can't even read this...do you think it's worse with girls?
Don't just read, say something! Sorry, I had to add the word verification - I am being spammed.